Wow, I hate myself for being on here to have to ask this... but I need so much help right now...
10 Months ago I broke up with the love of my life for A lot of REALLY good reasons. And told myself if he changed WITHOUT me around, then who knows, I loved the kid we were engaged for almost a year, together for two, went through everything, we were so in love it was gross, but he made some terrible choices and I needed to leave because of them.
Well two months ago, I started dating this really sweet guy, who I really really care about... It wasent the same, he cheated on me within the first two week of us being together, we talked it out and I felt it was best to stay, well now I'm in the this lovely little spot of this new guy, is very sweet, romantic, but is now a smoker, dipper and a little to excited when it comes a beer... AND my Old finace DID change his ENTIRE life around and wants me back... and I hate myself because I still really love him... But... my family still hates him because of everything as well as other stuff, this kid I'm with loves me, wants to marry me, I'm just confused and angry with myself for still loving the Old "Him" when I should be happily with new "Him" but when I'm with
New Him" I'm thinking about "Old Him" and when I think about "Old Him" I want to kick myself with guilt for not thinking about the person I'm with....as well as the fact that during his screw ups "Old Him" REALLY Hurt me and no one thinks I should give him a shot... "New him" wants to buy me and engagement ring and propose... Oh yea HAHAHAHA... I'm only 18 and they are both 19... so yes we are WAY to young to have these issues but haha. This is life eh? HELP!

Will yes you are to young. You haven't even experienced life yet.in today's times there are way too many divorce's so please take your time live,grow and find out what you really want out of life. One day the right man will come into your life and you'll know why the others didn't come work.

I think you are too young to marry.

Go where your heart leads you. You're the one with either guy, not your family.

At the age level you are at I would just tell you to go live life. Now it would a be a-little easier to give you advice if I knew what " Old him" did. But from what I've heard so far I would suggest, do what you think is right. Now this may sound harsh, but your family will get over it. Just talk to them and tell them how happy you truly are with "old him". And if they care about you (which I'm sure they do) they will understand, and love just as much. Now what to do with "new him" don't put yourself in a sitution that you are going to regret. In life you have to be selfish, so don't put yourself in a situation that will only make him happy.
Hope things get better for, Keep your chin up : )

How about telling both you are not ready to be married and just want to date, and date both for now and see where it goes, How ever said you can' just date one person while you are dating