Ok here is the deal I met that girl from a year she was just so nice cute and sweet and also funny just thinking about her made me smile I couldn't stop talking to her when I talked to her I felt good and relifed and I forgot about the entire world and all of my problems it just kept on going like this I almost spent my entire day talking to her and having a very good time and we were deaply in love with each others until some day I confised my love to her and she told me that she loved me 2 and when I asked her to be my girlfriend she said yes without thinking about it at all we spent an entire year together having much fun and talking all day long and going out most of the time I was always there for her when she needed me I was right there always bringing her flowers and telling her how much I love her and just spend our time out side looking at each others and holding each others hands until a few weeks before we began to have fights most of the time she starts it and they were about rediculouse things until 3 days ago she said that she can't take it any more and that she wants to break up with me and that she wished she would have said no when I asked her to be my girlfriend she really really broke my heart with her words so I closed my phone and de activated my face book and stopped any way that any one can contact me threw so after a few days when I calmed down I open my face book again and my phone I found 13 masseges on my phone from her and 7 on face book telling me that she made a very big mistake and that she shouldn't have done that and that she was very stupid when she said that she wanted to break up with me and she is telling me that she still loves me very much I don't know what to do she broke my heart badly and I really think that she might do it again please I need your advice

As horrible as it is, a higher percentage of people break up again if they already have done, than stay together.

And we think getting back with them is going to take all the pain away. When really, it's just delaying it.

She's telling you she's made a mistake as she's going through the heartbreak too. It's hard knowing someone you've committed yourself to isn't that matched to you after all. You've started on the path of healing your heart, I'd stay on that one and not turn back.

X Dani

Well thanks I think I will take your advice

Think about it. As you said she mostly started the fights. If she broke your heart badly enough tel her no. but if you still love her say yes. Its your option