I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now. A few months ago I felt that I didn't want to be in this relationship anymore. I see him almost everyday. I have tried breaking up with him. When I ask for a break he does not want one he says he will just end up breaking up. I feel like I need time to just think for myself. I really do love him but I feel like I don't care... that he just tries to make me feel bad. Idk how to leave him or if I know I'm making the right decision. I'm so confused. I need help!

When you see each other so often, it's difficult to be spontaneous. Things get tedious. The most romantic thing can sometimes be when they offer to wash up. Why don't you take a small holiday with some friends or something? That way you can get away and have a think, see how you feel about him when you get back.

X Dani

What's the problem?

Either get to the root of your relationship & talk, or make a move.

Healthy relationships are built on communication & goals. Sounds way overdue after 4 years.

Not everyone is right & some of us grow apart. That happens.

Either grow together, or grow apart. Decide which.

Breaking up is hard & not always mutual. Staying together & working hard is.

Tell him you want to do other things beside be with him every day, and if can't understand it, tell him its over, and to leave you alone.

Make a decision about what YOU want, and stick to it.