I'm nineteen and I have only recently started having sex, but my boyfriend has been touching me in different areas and everything except penetration up until that point to make me comfortable. He is able to turn me on and I enjoy the experience but I haven't orgasmed even when he tried other stuff(Oral, just touching, etc). He is very attentive to my needs and he makes me feel good, but I always want more. It is weird because even though it is enjoyable, I feel disconnected to the experience and I wonder if that is because up until him I had zero interest in sex. I also have zero interest in masturbating =/ Thank you for your time, this is still an awkward subject for me to talk about.

You have to first and above all "want it" and be good about what is happening. Next you need to find out what you like, and where and how. Since you have not masterbated you have no way to guide him as to how and what you want.

If you are not 100 percent involved, and if you are disconnected it is not happening for you

Is that normal? I didn't feel any discomfort my first time, and I haven't really done it all that much. But, I did feel some discomfort the second and third time. As soon as I said something my boyfriend stopped whatever it was that was causing it and the discomfort stopped. This bothers me since I always thought that I was supposed to bleed and I don't want my boyfriend to think that I lied to him even though he never hinted at that. (Just me being me) Especially since the only experience I have is with him and I learn new skills fast. I don't want him to mistake that as me lying to him. Thank you for your time!

It is not uncommon today for many women not to bleed on the first time any longer.

I believe it is required to know your age before any one respond to you, open the link below, Thanks.

John

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John: Sorry, I'm nineteen.

Thanks Aikirie, and yes I agree with Fr_Chuck.

John