My boyfriend punishes me by not seeing me because I ruined his Thanksgiving, he's also says that I have to listen and follow what he says from now on... I'm sad and feel alone

What is your question?

If I was in that situation, I would just tell him it's fine if he doesn't want to see me and I would stop contacting him. Right now, by going through this, you are on his terms... ignoring him will likely turn things around once he sees he doesn't have control of you.

It's all petty stuff anyway. You ruined his Thanksgiving? How could you have possibly done that?

Sounds like time to dump the looser..
Get out. Meet people and have fun..

My boyfriend punishes me by not seeing me because I ruined his Thanksgiving, he's also says that I have to listen and follow what he says from now on.....I'm sad and feel alone

I would be PISSED, and ready to fight if someone, anyone, told me that and then ignored me. Why is it okay to be talked to in this manner??

This is a relationship that is unhealthy. Nobody except your parents should be telling you to be obedient. Walk away and don't look back. There are others out there who will treat you wonderfully and in time, you will be thankful for this. You deserve respect.

Sounds like he is very controlling. You need to walk away NOW! The problem is if you stay with him, things can get worse and many times they will. You are not alone. There are many resources you can turn to for help. Women resource centres are great. Just to talk and support. The sooner you get him out of your life the better. You deserve better. Take your power back. These kind of men like to make you powerless and get you into a weak position you can't even think for yourself and you loose who you are. How do I know honey, I was in your shoes! This guy likes to control you because of his insecurities. These kind of men are outright bullies. Smile, lift your head high and empower yourself and look ahead for better things to come. Also with the resource centres they will help give you the tools to become a more stronger confident woman and how to recognize creeps like them. They are sly and can put on a very good front.

Great time to stop seeing him and find a new boyfriend.
He is not acting proper, no one has the right to "order" the other one around