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Vik12341
Nov 27, 2011, 01:58 PM
Erh I'm 16. My parents hit me and the usual. I've taken that for near enough my whole life. But recently, my parents have been taking sides, never mine. I have a 14 year old brother who is the biggest little s*** I have ever met. He annoys me so much, and I hit him. Being the attention seeker he is, he cries when my parents are near. When they are not around, tears are nowhere to be seen. Every time, I get shouted at for it? It's as if my brother WANTS me to hit him.
The main issue I have is the lack of support. All my parents do is compare me to cousins/friends. They take the negative points out of me, and contrast it to others. They never say the good things, oh no. That'd be too much to ask. For instance, I worked from 5pm-10pm on a Saturday night.. When I got back in, I sat on my phone for about 5 minutes before I went for a shower. I got shouted at for being on my phone too much? -.- Then apparently I don't do enough work either. I said that I'd worked from 5 till 10, but just because my brother had worked from 3-9, my hours aren't significant.
They just don't care.
I give the f*** up. Please can someone help me find a way to live somewhere else.. Or put into care. Thanks!

Fr_Chuck
Nov 27, 2011, 02:01 PM
First stop hitting your brother, violence is not an answer.

Report to the police when your parents hit you, can get children services involved.

talaniman
Dec 3, 2011, 07:56 PM
Have a private talk with a trusted teacher or school counsellor. They may be able to help you more than anyone. Is there another adult you trust, and admire, and can have a conversation with, or family member?

It always helps to have a friend on your side, that listens and supports, without judging.