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loverlover
Nov 23, 2011, 09:08 AM
I have tried not calling or texting, I hardly make it 3 days.
I have tried getting a new boyfriend but, I still have feelings for him.
I have tried talking to him & just being friends, the feelings I have for him are way too much to just be "friends".
I want to get over him, but I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do. HELPPP.

DaniCalifornia
Nov 23, 2011, 02:45 PM
You're mostly going the wrong way about it hun! The main way to get over someone is to keep yourself busy. Go out with friends and take up a new hobby. If you're not doing much, of COURSE you'll give in to contacting him. Time really does heal all. In a while, you'll feel like even when you aren't doing anything, you won't need to talk to him or see him. You will feel yourself getting over it, I promise.

And don't date people yet. You need time to heal.

X Dani

emjen2
Nov 25, 2011, 09:49 AM
First of all erase his contacts that's what I did to my ex and I haven't texted him in forever!

geminichick
Nov 27, 2011, 11:48 AM
It will take time to get over him. Don't rush into another relationship to fill the gap or loss of your ex. Go out with friends. Go get a manicure. Do something special for yourself. After all, your worth it!

talaniman
Nov 27, 2011, 11:16 PM
Have no more contact, and get busy having a great time with friends, family, and activities that you enjoy, and in time he will be a pleasant memory.

Read the stickies here (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/) and see how others have moved on in there lives from an ex.