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MiloC
Nov 20, 2011, 11:47 PM
I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year and get along with her great. The thing is, sometimes I just need a break from seeing her. This past week she came to stay with me (on campus) and we were together 24/7 for almost six days. By "together" I mean the only time we weren't in the same room was when one of us used the washroom. By the sixth day I just felt numb. Is this normal? Is it okay to want some alone time? Or should I be concerned about our relationship? Thanks in advance.

Jameson1213
Nov 21, 2011, 12:12 AM
It's normal to need some alone time or time with the bros after spending virtually 6 days together the whole time of nearly 164 hours minus the washroom. Most couples tend to go on dates, hang out for the day, maybe occupy each others dwellings for a night or so. But They always go home at some point or have a time gap of seeing each other for a couple of days. You shouldn't be concerned for your relationship in this instense unless she is acting a little clingy (which is normal) or totally obsessive.

talaniman
Nov 21, 2011, 03:14 PM
You are not only normal, but worn out. She probably is too.

ForeverZero
Nov 21, 2011, 05:53 PM
Depends. If she don't leave you alone when you want to play xbox then there's a problem. Even when I love a girl to death I can't deal with 24/7 attachments. How the hell am I supposed to prestige my modern warfare account?