I have an ugly vigaina... and this has been bothering me since I was young. I've tried to discuss about it with a couple different doctors when I had a chance like getting women's annual exams in the past but they all said every vigaina looks different. But that doesn't make me feel better at all. I feel bad for my husband for not having a normal vigaina that any other girls has. It also makes me sad when I imagine he might get very curious or obssed with other girl's vigaina. I hate when guys talk about p**** or seeing other girls camel toes on the street. The problem with mine is that my vigaina don't have a clevige which means that... I don't even want to describe it. My husband likes oral sex but I hate it! I hate when my husband tries to touch or see it. Don't guys just want to touch and kiss a fine vigaina? How does it make you feel when you know that your girlfriend or wife has an ugly vigaina? Would my husband want me to let him play with mine and not care about how it looks? Or should I keep hiding it from him?

I actually don't believe you post for one moment. But if you are real, no it is not like there, there is not "ugly" and looks there mean nothing , smell and hygene will mean a lot.

And sex is not about looks but about both your enjoyment and that of your partner.

It had never occurred to me that the way a vagina looks is important. Male here. Normally if anything bothers you about it is either smell or tightness. If you don't have a "clevige" wouldn't that just be better access? Vagina's are designed to do one thing and one thing only, apart from peeing of course... that task it to attract males so that they want to leave their seed in there and procreate... unless your husband is verbally disturbed by this what is your worry? He is still trying to have sex with you, wants to give you oral sex, and enjoys making love to you. STOP WORRYING!!

Vagina's are designed to do one thing and one thing only, apart from peeing of course
Um, females don't pee from vaginas.

You are worrying about nothing... like boobs they come in all shapes and sizes and types.

Big deal, you don't have a camel toe. Lots of women don't. I am a guy... I actually LIKE to see (how can I tastefuly say this) a butterfly... that's not normally completely hidden unless you are doing a gynastic stunt.

Its clear he isn't bothered... and have you really considered the fact... he might really LIKE the type you have more than the kind you have a perference for.

And quite honestly... I find a lack of a deep cleavage there, to be an real advantage when oral sex is involved from the guys perspective.

You are worrying about nothing... relax.

Amen Smoothy.

Relax. We all look different, from our breasts to our vaginas. There are women who have breasts with large nipples to small ones to cherry pink to all shades of chocolate. One might be higher than the other. Whatever. These same differences happen in our intimate vaginal areas. Every woman is beautiful. If you have a clean and well taken care of vaginal and pubic area - you should have confidence. If you have ever read erotica, it seems all of those women have large hard "nubs" as clits - who knew! Again, be clean, well groomed (whether you shave bare, trim or go natural) and love yourself. The fact that your husband desires to gift you with oral sex, that should tell you he values your body and enjoys your beauty.

Relax and enjoy him!