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Thebestfriend
Nov 13, 2011, 09:00 PM
Hello, I'm 24 and my friend is 23, I'm bisexual and was wondering if he is. He has never said anything to me at all about liking girls or guys and sometimes acts a little gay. He doesn't do anything that would identify him as gay. He has never had a girlfriend. In High School, I knew this girl that liked him, and she wanted me to ask him out for her. I asked him, he told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend at all. I'm almost sure he is gay or at least bi and I have had feelings for him since around 6th grade. So is he gay or at least bi?

DaniCalifornia
Nov 14, 2011, 03:45 AM
Nobody is going to know but him, Love.

What makes you think he is? Have you opened up to him? Remember, it COULD be quite a shock, s consider your friendship first.

X Dani

smoothy
Nov 14, 2011, 08:16 AM
As was said by DaniCalifornia, unless he tells you himself... all anyone is doing is making a guess.

mathewcostin
Nov 22, 2011, 07:08 AM
Feel your fear of being honest, of exposing yourself and being rejected. Then you'll be able to do it, to ask him up front.