My boyfriend is turning 14 in two days and I'm screwed- he like football (Steelers and Colts) and paintballing... he says he doesn't want anything, but I feel like I should... What do I do?

... well get him something. If he likes painball and football. Well get him a foot ball or some painballs for his gun. If he don't have a gun o well. Its your decision what to get him. Its your money.

Painball? What the heck is painball?

Or do you mean paintball? The OP already knows it's her decision and her money. That's why she asked the question.

I'd get him a "football" t-shirt or sweatshirt.

How old are you, how long has he been your boyfriend? Do you parents know about you being boyfriend and girlfriend?

Okay, I figured it out; I ended up getting a bunch of little stuff Steelers themed. A Steelers bag and notebook, his fav candy, and a Steelers shirt.

Okay, I figured it out; I ended up getting a bunch of little stuff Steelers themed. A Steelers bag and notebook, his fav candy, and a Steelers shirt.

I know this is going off topic a bit, but I have to say this bothers me. This is his 14th birthday. That means he's now 13. That also means you are likely to be 13 or younger. Checking the Steelers on line store the list of stuff you got could have cost upwards of $50. That seems a lot of money for a 13 yr old to spend. It also seems a lot to spend for a relationship that can't have been going on very long. And given your ages, you really shouldn't be dating in the first place.

Where are your parents in all this?