So my flow is medium to heavy, I prefer no wings and is it possible to have a decent size pad without it halfway up your back-side but still have good enough protection from leakage? Also would like a nice scented one!

I've been looking online and can't really find the perfect pad for me,

What I described above is exactly what I'm looking for, I never wear pads I've had periods for 9 years and always have worn tampax.. I'm also buying them online and in the U.K

So could anyone please tell me what they wear that's close to what I described also any websites please? Thanks in advance..
Sorry I'm so fussy

Is there a particular reason you want to buy them online? "Always" is just one product that has several choices. You will find a variety to choose from on Amazon.co.uk

Always UK :Always Products - Find your perfect pad (http://www.always-info.co.uk/find_your_pad.html)