Can anybody tell me what is really going on in this guys head.. I am a very attractive girl not to be conceited and I hear that always but I recently met this guy who trully makes me happy. Although at times my feelings for him flunctuates for many reasons. One reason is that when I first met him I encountered a girl who embarrassed me and him claiming to be dating him and knew his mom. He denied this at first but not in front of her. When she was screaming in his room he just kept quiet and when she left I was so furious I wanted to leave. He wouldn't let me and he nearly cried saying he didn't want to lose me.. this was 2-3 days after I met him. Then several days later I went through his phone and saw a text to a girl about doing sexual stuff and having fun without regrets and strings. I confronted him about it and he had the balls to tell me he told me about the girl. When all he told me was that the girl liked him and so forth.. but the text was so incriminating and he deined he ever met the girl in person. But the text indicated he had been over to her house severally and waited for her to come downstairs.

Anyway I got over that because am pretty confident in myself as a woman but sometimes I feel sad that if he has a girl like me and I don't know if he has tendencies to still act like a guy. But he has introduced me to his family and friends. We all chill and even drink with his friends. Before when I cook for his family he doesn't help and rather stays with his cousin or friends watching TV while I cook. These days he stays in the kitchen with me and actually help with cooking and even wash the dishes. Even his friends and family are forced to come into the kitchen just to talk to him. And before he leaves with them to the sitting room he asks me if he could go. And I never told him I was mad for him never helping initailly.. and I wasn't..

He is changed now... he is more affectionate in front of his friends and family with me. Listens to me and I even broke up with him once and he ignored that and still came to see me pretending I didn't say a thing

But even htough am really happy with this man and might even love him am still doubt ful at times as all his friends and family are guys and when they talk I feel like they might lead him astrAY AND he might cheat on me when they all hang out without me. But maybe its just me.. I don't know what to do.. does anyone know what's really going on with me and this guy?
Advice or comment will be highly appreciated?

I suggest bringing up this directly with him. Take the message you just wrote and address it to him as you would probably not say things outright like this to his face normally :)

I like what suprazboy said, you just need to come out and ask him, let him know how you feel, work out any probalms...