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jasonwong92
Nov 10, 2011, 10:56 AM
My gf's mother won't allow her daughter to having a relationship. What can I try to talk to her mother? Her mother seemed to like me at the first, but after few months with her daughter, she suddenly doesn't like her daughter to have relationship.
This the reason why my girlfriend asked to break-up with me, she feel so annoyed from her mothers opposition.
Any ideas? Should I finding a chance talk to her mum? What should I talk with? I really love her... =(
mmresd
Nov 10, 2011, 12:27 PM
You can always talk to the mother, however the change in her mother could be that maybe she noticed that you two were "together", maybe at first she though you were just a friend? Sometimes parents don't like to think of someone dating their daughter because either the guy is not worth their child's time, or because they don't want their baby taken awat from them. Talk to the mother, explain your intentions, and hope for the best. However, if she still doesn't want you two together, then you are going to have to respect that.
talaniman
Nov 10, 2011, 06:27 PM
Ask her mother for permission to date her daughter, and how old are you both?
jasonwong92
Nov 10, 2011, 08:39 PM
mmresd: At first her mum know I am already with her daughter in a relatioship, and her mum nevrr oppose and feeling quite like me, after came back from traveling her mum got brought me some special food snatch to eat, she asked her daughter take to me.
talaniman: her daughter already 18 and I am already 19, we are considered as adult.
talaniman
Nov 11, 2011, 06:32 AM
The only thing that comes to mind is a job, or moving to further education being pushed by her mother. If indeed it is her mother, so maybe mom wants to insure her daughter goes away to school. I don't know, and without know more about the situation its hard to say what's really going on except your girl is going to obey her mom.
So what are both your future plans? Are you in school? Maybe a relationship was great idea, or acceptable before, but something seems to have changed, so what was that change?
vanheart
Nov 13, 2011, 12:48 AM
Her mom may be right.
Are you two? Right? Too young & too early, I say.
I would exit this whole thing. Save yourself the grief. If you can.
Doesn't sound like you are "in" Or liking this one bit. Sucks, huh?
She's going to go with her Mom, before you.
Is this all pleasurable?
Here's what I really understood from your post:
"my gf asked to break-up with me"
That I understand. Transcends everything.