SadGuy91
Nov 8, 2011, 03:22 PM
Hey guys,
I need some advice. My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday and pretty much said she has no feelings for me any more. She cares about me a lot but does not love me any more. I asked what has changed as we were fine the last time I saw her and she said she just doesn't know. Do feelings change on a whim?
I absolutely love(d?) this girl to bits and would have done anything for her, it was a real shock to the system to her those words coming out of her mouth and I just don't know what to do with myself. It hurts so bad :( I really feel like I've lost someone significant in my life and I feel helpless and rejected. Was it because of me that she lost her feelings?
I have known this girl for 3 years and we we're only together for 7 months but lived together for 6 of those months, as we were flat mates. We recently moved back to our home town but are not living together. Could that have been a factor? We did see each other pretty much daily. We're both 20 years old and don't really know what we want out of life, so I guess that could be another factor?
I just want to get over it and move on, because there is way I can describe the pain of being told that the person you love does not love you back :'( it hurts immensely and I wish it could worked out so much more.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks.
I need some advice. My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday and pretty much said she has no feelings for me any more. She cares about me a lot but does not love me any more. I asked what has changed as we were fine the last time I saw her and she said she just doesn't know. Do feelings change on a whim?
I absolutely love(d?) this girl to bits and would have done anything for her, it was a real shock to the system to her those words coming out of her mouth and I just don't know what to do with myself. It hurts so bad :( I really feel like I've lost someone significant in my life and I feel helpless and rejected. Was it because of me that she lost her feelings?
I have known this girl for 3 years and we we're only together for 7 months but lived together for 6 of those months, as we were flat mates. We recently moved back to our home town but are not living together. Could that have been a factor? We did see each other pretty much daily. We're both 20 years old and don't really know what we want out of life, so I guess that could be another factor?
I just want to get over it and move on, because there is way I can describe the pain of being told that the person you love does not love you back :'( it hurts immensely and I wish it could worked out so much more.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks.