Well me and my ex have been together for 4 years on and off. He would be the one mostly to break up with me, and he'll always want to get back together. We slept together, and we were each others first, and always has been.

But this time when he broke up with me, he started to like this other girl. In under a week of our break up, its like I didn't mean anything to him, and I'm scared they will have sex cause the girl is a virgin and it will confuse everything. Its like what we had was just thrown out of the window. I don't know whether to move on, or to wait around for him to come back.

What he does is no longer your problem. The relationship you have is over and he is moving on. He has probably not gotten over you "that" quickly, is just she is using her as a rebound to alleviate feeling single again. You were single once, and now you are single again, learn how to do it again, you knew how to do it already. It hurts, break ups suck, only time will take that pain away, however what you do within that time is important. To use the time most effectively you need to not contact your ex again and try to redo your life. Keep yourself busy, a positive attitude, and soon you will meet someone else.

If I were you, I would move on, and not wait for him to come back, and if he does, don't take him back, and certainly don't sleep with him ever again.

Then you won't get dumped, or cheated on by a guy that ain't in it to win it, just use it, and throw it away.

Yea I get the whole thing with moving on, but whenever I'm at home I just want to text or ring him, and now that exams are coming up and the holidays are coming up... I said to him I wouldn't see or talk to him at all during this time and I don't know if I can last... Its 4 months.

I said to myself not him, that I'm not going to see him... like he still tries to talk to me at school and all... and I can't help it but to talk back.. and he like hugged me yesterday, and I don't know, I just wanted to lose contact with him... I don't know.


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Its hard when you have to see him every day. But if you maybe change your routine, and have a friend with you, in time you will be less, and less emotional, and more in control of yourself.

That's the key, cool, calm, and in control.

Well yesterday was guyforks and I was having fun and happy until he came and brung the girl he's with now with him and the second I saw them I brusted into tears... I couldn't help it I thought I could be OK with it but I wasn't... and she also stayed at his house so I think they might be sleeping together now and it hurts me to know that he was once mine