SabineGriffin
Oct 31, 2011, 10:33 AM
So, I'm not a parent, but I'm a nanny. I'm taking care of this 6 year old, and he's really interested in animals and also cavemen. The parents let him watch shows and movies about cavemen that, in my eyes, are way to mature for a 6 year old.
Now, he likes to roleplay and we often do cavemen, in which he's always what he calls 'the dominant male' and I'm the 'dominate female', and therefore we have to mate. He actually tried it once, and I said very clearly: "Stop, I don't think it is a good idea that we do this." He semi listened, since then we just pretend mate, he still get's way to close for my taste and then he wants me to pretend give birth to his babies. Besides that he is always trying to lay his head on my breasts, or laying a hand over them, I try to stop him, and explain but he just keeps on doing it. Sometimes after we played up close or cuddled or so, he goes in his room for privacy (which means he's going to masturbate). I don't think it is actually possible for a 6 year old to have thoughts like that, but since he's been watching these shows, he actually might know what he's doing? I'm not sure if I should address this issue with his parents, if I should try to stop him more forcefully or if this is just normal behaviour?
Now, he likes to roleplay and we often do cavemen, in which he's always what he calls 'the dominant male' and I'm the 'dominate female', and therefore we have to mate. He actually tried it once, and I said very clearly: "Stop, I don't think it is a good idea that we do this." He semi listened, since then we just pretend mate, he still get's way to close for my taste and then he wants me to pretend give birth to his babies. Besides that he is always trying to lay his head on my breasts, or laying a hand over them, I try to stop him, and explain but he just keeps on doing it. Sometimes after we played up close or cuddled or so, he goes in his room for privacy (which means he's going to masturbate). I don't think it is actually possible for a 6 year old to have thoughts like that, but since he's been watching these shows, he actually might know what he's doing? I'm not sure if I should address this issue with his parents, if I should try to stop him more forcefully or if this is just normal behaviour?