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My crush called me darling a week after I told him I like him what does this mean does he like me to, or is he just being nice?

He said, "I would never do that to you, my darling" when he asked me to come to his workplace and gave me his schedule.

He might. It depends if he uses petnames like that often and to other girls as well.
I know a lot of guys use words like darling, dear, pet, sweetheart when they are seeing a lot of girls so they don't mix their names up. (not saying he's one of those guys =P Just making a point)
But if he's acting more endearing towards you after telling him you liked him then I would say yes he seems interested.

Regardless of what it means, you are trying to read it too much. If you are wondering if he likes you or not back, you are going to have to ask him, there is no way around it. Don't assume things, that is how problems begin.



Could be either of them, why don't you ask him?

You are right I should just ask him the next time I see him.

I am starting to question if the guy I have a huge crush on actually likes me. The body language was off when I first told him of my feelings. He was in shock and his feet pointed in the opposite direction of me. To make a long story short... He did say he liked me and we parted ways.

Two weeks later I wanted to close a account at my bank (he works at the bank). I was talking to a bank manager and was told someone would call me back in an hour. When they called back, the bank manager said "I have S with me" (S is my crush). The bank manager said to me "S and I are going over your info, and we do not see anything wrong. We will keep looking. Oh, S wanted me to tell you not to end your accounts." I did not know what to say because S had never gotten involved in my problems prior to my reveling my crush on him.

Later, I went in to close one of my accounts and S helped me. He was nice, but I noticed he called me his darling, but he did not look at me when he said it. However, it seemed sincere and sweet. He never called me that before and most definitely does not talk to other women like that. I do not know what to make of this. Do any of you?

Also, after I told him I liked him, he started showing up on the same street I live on (two or three times a week during the day and hanging around outside). He came around only prior to our talk, once a month. I think he was really interested, but we just never got together. I did not know what to say to him after he called me his darling. I so froze up and now I don't think he works at the bank anymore.

I saw him on Halloween on my street again visiting his friend, but he did not see me or maybe he did. Either way, we did not talk, and he has never come over, even though he could if he wanted.

You should talk to him and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Then if you get the chance, ask him if he likes you. Don't be afraid to confront it all. Just ask him if he likes you whether the answer is yes or no. At least you will know. If yes, then ask him out. If no, then maybe it will grow. If it doesn't grow, there are a lot of guys out there. :)

True thank you

Part 2 of my first question... my crush came next door to my house to see his friend. Over the summer we both flirted but I did not make a move I just ignored it all. He knows I live across the street but has not come over. I am so worried that he has lost interest in me. Does anyone know how I could approach him as he is leaving his friends house and tell him that I am still interested without looking like a fool? He is always in and out of his friends home this is too complicated. Should I leave a note on his car letting him know that it is OK to come over?

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