View Full Version : My boyfriend says he has a lot on his mind, thus we don't have sex
mkirsner
Oct 28, 2011, 12:50 PM
We have been together 3 months living together 2 and a half months, we went from almost everyday to now its been over 2 weeks, I try he pushes me away. I asked him if he was still into me. I ask why we don't have sex any more and his response was he has a lot on his mind.. I told him that I feel unwanted.. I need to know what this means.. It really hurts.
DaniCalifornia
Oct 28, 2011, 03:13 PM
You're getting serious rather quickly, it seems. This is what happens when we act on those fairy tale feelings we have in the beginning of relationships. He should still be surprising you with flowers on a date at this stage!
But anyway, give 'sex deprivation' a go. Instead of it being "I'm not being satisfied" and "We don't have sex enough", Let it be tease build ups. Write him an erotica story with you both as the characters. Buy some sexy new underwear. Don't make it a priority, or you'll both feel pressured.
X Dani
Cat1864
Oct 29, 2011, 03:40 PM
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