Got married at 19 nearly 20. We had been in a long distance relationship on and off for 2years. During this time only saw each other about five times and spent a few hours together.however its been nearly 4 years now and I feel I rushed into it as I feel I have changed in person. He is 8 years older than me. I don't think I love him any more though care for him a lot.we have a son together.we hardly knew each other when we got married as we were living in different countries so met each others familys a few days before wedding.

I am wondering if proposing at 21 is too young? I personally feel that it is a perfectly fine age to propose, because we aren't going to get married that same year, so we will probably wait 2 more years or so to actually get married. Do you think that's all right? :confused:

Yes I thinkk is OK
So thatyou can no the girl of te lady you are about 2 marry :rolleyes: