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KtreX17
Oct 17, 2011, 04:05 AM
My girlfriend of 2 years hates sex and says she feels uncomfortable kissing me, she also won't even cuddle me, she says that she still cares but she sees me more of a friend... What's wrong and what should I do
talaniman
Oct 17, 2011, 01:35 PM
Respect her position, and maybe you are better friends than partners. This is only a preview of what life will be like with her as a partner, because I doubt she changes. Can you accept that from a girlfriend?
Do you see this as being something you can accept for another year? If you cannot, you have a tough decision to make, whether you are willing to or not.
How old are you both?
KtreX17
Oct 17, 2011, 01:45 PM
Both 18 :/
talaniman
Oct 17, 2011, 01:57 PM
Kind of young and no doubt you have some changes coming that you have to adjust to, because you are both outgrowing that young high school love thang.
KtreX17
Oct 17, 2011, 01:59 PM
I know it sounds pathetic because we are young but it's been so long and I used to be the happiest person on this planet she was amazing, I just don't know what to do
talaniman
Oct 17, 2011, 02:03 PM
Talk to her honestly, and see if there is a future.Maybe its time you both move on and experience others. It happens that way sometimes as we grow, and learn about life, and reality.
Sucks I know, as we get used to and become attached to partners we have had for years.
KtreX17
Oct 17, 2011, 02:05 PM
I understand what you mean, well she says she needa time to thonk everything through and everything, I've been told it's a side effect of the pill to so we'll see what happens... Thanks you've been a great help :)
talaniman
Oct 17, 2011, 02:16 PM
Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.
Good Luck.
vanheart
Oct 18, 2011, 07:54 PM
Ah, dude.
She doesn't hate sex. Just with you now.
Time to split.
You both had your fun.
So be it.
There's more.