I dated this guy who I believe was my soul mate. At the time we were dating, I was a single mom to a toddler. Which was the reason he ended the relationship. He then contacted me about 10 years later and said that he had been a jerk, that what he did was wrong and felt that I had been put into his life earlier as a blessing but that he didn't realize that until later.

He wanted to start a relationship again but I of course reminded him that I was still a mother and he was fine with that. Unfortunately, I had already been seeing someone else and it was getting serious. I let the soul mate know but he believed we belonged together.

So I saw him a few times and it was like no time had passed, the feelings and such were like we never had been apart. I chose to stay in the relationship with the new guy, even though my heart and soul wanted to do the opposite. I think I was afraid of the past repeating itself. Have to say, even though I told the soul mate my decision, he would call or show up at my work for several months after.

I ended up moving in with the chosen one and things were great, eventually led to marriage. I changed jobs but heard that he had called and came by. My marriage eventually ended but my soul mate was always in the back of my mind. Did I make the wrong choice?

I would like to be able to contact him but can't track him down so easily. Who knows maybe he settled down also. So I guess the questions I'm looking for are: should I try to find him and if so, how do I go about it? Also, is it just too late and I should just remember him fondly?

I can't lie, my heart and soul still ache for him to this day. Any comments and suggestions?

You should at least try to find him, if you have feelings for him. How long has it been since you last saw him/ heard from him directly?