Hey my name is Alex and I am 16 my girlfriends name is Michelle we are dating now but I keep on having this feeling that I should break up with her about 4-5 months ago that's when we first got together and we where very much in love but then after 2 months of being in a relationship she had to go to Germany for some camp to learn German and I was sad because she had to go after she left to Germany she was acting really weird I kept on send asking her what's wrong but didn't answer me but after couple days she answered saying " I'm sorry, But I'm too scared to do something stupid, cos were drinking every night... I think we should have a break.. And if you want, we can talk when I get back.. Sorry.." and I told her OK but I am never ever going to trust you again and she said "OK" but after a week on Facebook it said that she was in a relationship with another guy I was so hurt I was going to kill myself that day I drank so much alcohol I couldn't remember what I did that night and then the next day I asked her if she still wanted to be friends she said no I don't need to be friends with you and then she starts saying that her new boyfriend is hot and has 6 packs and crap like that and then said that she never liked my body and because I was fat (I was 97 kg height 170 cm ) that was the last time I talked to her and then I said to myself to stop all the bad stuff I do like drinking and smoking and lose weight and then the next 1-2 months I started gym and diet and didn't smoke or drink and I lost so much weight ( 22kg ) I used my anger to the gym to lose weight and then after 2 months of not seeing my ex I kind of got over her but first day of school I saw her I didn't talk to her I ignored her but after couple of days I found out that she wanted to get back with me so badly and that she said that I lost so much weight I looked thin and then my feeling started to come back fast and then we talked and we got back together and after 3 weeks I broke up with her because of the past (because she left me for another guy ) and the next day I herd that she cut her self so I went to check on her and she did cut her self I told her to not do stupid thing again and then I was about to leave she started crying (I was so cute ) I turned around and hugged her I felt bad for her I got back with her because I never saw a person love me that much but after 2-3 weeks ( now ) I still love her but I feel like I want to break up with her because she made me suffer so much when she left to Germany.

So should I break up with her ?

Thanks so much for reading

( it was so cute ) *

Okay I'm just going to say this but if she went to Germany and then came back all guilty and said sorry... 9 times out of 10 she parable cheated on you. So she broke up with you for the guy she cheated on you with Orr she just got a new guy. Now if she cheated on you once theirs a high percent chance she is going to do it again. She only began to cut herself to get your attention. I did the same thing to my last boyfriend. I cheated on him (it was a accident stupid dude kissed me in front of him) I told him it was an accident and I didn't cheat on him he broke up with me. Then I cut myself to get his attention. My suggestion is to keep an eye on her. Make sure she doesn't cheat. Doesn't cut. And doesn't act weird and say I'm sorry again okay. So this is your choice you have to decided okay.