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Littleboo4ever
Oct 10, 2011, 05:52 PM
Okay so he used to be madly in love with me, he was the romantic type in a very cheesy way. He would hold my hand and put his arm around me. Now I hated his guts until one night he kissed me, everything changed. After a while I fell in love with him. Truly, then one day we got into a HUGE fling and he hated me wouldn't talk to me wouldn't do anything. He never told me what I did. One day he came over we started being friends again, we got really close again and I thought he might give me another chance.

School started and a new girl came she was my best friend going out with the one I loved. He ended up "Liking" me again during that and said "Lets play pretend" put his arm around me and walked home. She broke up with him. Now just Sunday he did it again. Held my hand all the way home. I fell asleep on his shoulder he ran his fingers through my hair. Then we get to school and he says he doesn't like me and he would never go out with me... What's going on. I KNOW he loves me again. But why won't he say admit it like before..

Rhyme4NoReason
Oct 10, 2011, 10:21 PM
Maybe you hurt him so much in the past that he can't find away to forgive you, and he keeps trying to look past it but can't. You need to figure out what you did wrong and talk to him about it.

And if he doesn't want to discuss it in a civil manner, then you tell me how you feel about him, and let him know that he can't run back to you again, because you can't keep living in the vicious circle.

Goodluck

talaniman
Oct 10, 2011, 10:35 PM
He is playing with your feelings and only he knows why, so don't let him, by having no more to do with him, and that ends the confusion and drama.

He is cruel, and you never give your heart to a cruel person. Love is not cruel.

jordan613
Oct 29, 2011, 12:14 PM
He is toying with your emotions don't let him do that to you so is would be best to ask him straight up and if he half answers you or hesitates for a long time he is toying with you break up with him if you feel he is being untrue and deceptive. There is also a thought that the lets play pretend is like him being insecure and testing the waters if you are willing to take him back. Classic example son:dad would you be angry if I smoked? Father: Son I would be very upset if you did why ? Son : uhh forget it I was just asking... later dad. You understad the point

Littleboo4ever
Nov 11, 2011, 08:28 PM
Thanks. I just don't know just the other day he admitting to loving me. He actually said it but he still acts the same around "others"

talaniman
Nov 11, 2011, 08:51 PM
He talks good, but acts bad. Which do you believe? His words, or actions?