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MarissaSmith
Oct 10, 2011, 04:01 PM
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 1/2 months. But we both have nasty past encounters with cheaters and jerks. Recently, he's been questioning my loyalty to him. I understand he's wary about getting into another relationship and I keep trying to reassure him that I'm not like that (and I'm not!) but it seems like my attempts are falling on deaf ears. How can I prove to him that I'm loyal?

Rhyme4NoReason
Oct 10, 2011, 11:26 PM
You don't have to prove anything to anyone but yourself. If he doesn't trust you, then
Tell him to go find someone that he does trust. Its only 2 1/2 months into a relationship
And there's already drama? What happened to the honeymoon stage.

Kahani Punjab
Oct 10, 2011, 11:32 PM
Merissa Smith,

Do not run after that guy, when he has no faith in you. Love is faith, and when he is doing such nasty things, in the beginning of the relationship, what can you expect of him, in future? Do not be possessive, sticky and needy. He needs you as much as he needs you. So, just be cool and do not worry about him. The world is big and vast. I think you got my point.

To say in a word, if he doubts you, dear, it means, he does not love you, at all.

DaniCalifornia
Oct 11, 2011, 05:52 AM
Sweetheart, you don't need to prove anything.

This is just his paranoia, most likely stemming from a previous experience. This is his problem, not yours.

X Dani

im_so_in_love
Feb 27, 2013, 08:23 PM
You don't have to prove anything to him, if you guys are meant for each other then things will work out and he won't have any reasons to say that you aren't loyal to him. So if you guys are meant for each other then things will change eventually, but don't wait to long because he can be stopping a guy that can trust you and that you know is loyal to you, from coming into your life.

ArmstrongMiller
Feb 28, 2013, 05:43 AM
If you're loyal, time will approve everything.