pantera5
Oct 7, 2011, 01:34 AM
Ok guys, here's my story. I met this girl in college, we were friends while I knew she was in a relationship with another guy and things in their relationship were not good. After she broke up with him, I made a move after a while telling my feelings and kissed her which she accepted.
Afterward she said she's not feeling OK with this situation and I shouldn't have any hopes with her although she likes me she told and she likes that I respect her and that I make her feel unique. We still hanged out for couple months and the story was all over again which I mean we kissed many times but afterward she was changing her mind and told me that she doesn't want any relationship at the moment and I should look for an other girl so I would get over her but she wants to stay friends.
In my opinion over the time we passed I made some mistakes with her like pressure her sometimes to move on or show jealously when other guys talked to her and even being there available for her when needed which I know is totally wrong but I couldn't do otherwise since I had these strong feelings for her.
After couple weeks we were suppose to hang out, and then she canceled it and told me that she was with her ex. Then I decided to tell my feelings for her again and then I told her I spent too much time and gave too much attention on you which I haven't regret it ever but since you show no interest its time for me to move on and get over you.
And her answer was I'm glad that you decided this and told me we'll talk tomorrow. I really believe that this girl is into me but after some time I've noticed that the reasons that she doesn't move on with me are : 1) she's not over her ex 2) I'm not the guy that she's looking for 3) she wants to be alone.. well I don't know how to react in the future time and any advise guys?
Afterward she said she's not feeling OK with this situation and I shouldn't have any hopes with her although she likes me she told and she likes that I respect her and that I make her feel unique. We still hanged out for couple months and the story was all over again which I mean we kissed many times but afterward she was changing her mind and told me that she doesn't want any relationship at the moment and I should look for an other girl so I would get over her but she wants to stay friends.
In my opinion over the time we passed I made some mistakes with her like pressure her sometimes to move on or show jealously when other guys talked to her and even being there available for her when needed which I know is totally wrong but I couldn't do otherwise since I had these strong feelings for her.
After couple weeks we were suppose to hang out, and then she canceled it and told me that she was with her ex. Then I decided to tell my feelings for her again and then I told her I spent too much time and gave too much attention on you which I haven't regret it ever but since you show no interest its time for me to move on and get over you.
And her answer was I'm glad that you decided this and told me we'll talk tomorrow. I really believe that this girl is into me but after some time I've noticed that the reasons that she doesn't move on with me are : 1) she's not over her ex 2) I'm not the guy that she's looking for 3) she wants to be alone.. well I don't know how to react in the future time and any advise guys?