Frogette
Sep 30, 2011, 08:02 AM
I moved abroad last year to study, I was there just a few weeks when I met an incredible guy. We started dating immediately and quickly fell into a relationship. However a few months later I had to move countries to complete an internship and he took the opportunity to go traveling with friends. Initially we decided it was best to go our separate ways but remain friendly and in contact. However, when we were both gone just a few weeks we decided we missed each other so much we could make it work and we did.
We successfully did the long distance thing for 6 months. We are both back in the same country and together now since 4 weeks, some days we are so good, others we fight and quarrel. He tells me he wants to be free and cannot be committed, and when I suggest we ease up he freaks out. I can't get it right, this results in me getting angry and losing my temper on nights out with him.
Today he asked for some space, to reflect on things because he knows he is not treating me well, but I'm so scared I'm losing him. I don't know what to do or what to be?
We successfully did the long distance thing for 6 months. We are both back in the same country and together now since 4 weeks, some days we are so good, others we fight and quarrel. He tells me he wants to be free and cannot be committed, and when I suggest we ease up he freaks out. I can't get it right, this results in me getting angry and losing my temper on nights out with him.
Today he asked for some space, to reflect on things because he knows he is not treating me well, but I'm so scared I'm losing him. I don't know what to do or what to be?