Hey guys, I recenly joined the help desk after I broke up with my girl friend, I am not going to tell you to get over your ex or that it isn't worth your time, you are reading this because you have decided you want your ex back and won't stop until you have her , let me first tell you my story, I broke up with my ex because my friends told me she had cheated on me, later after she got a new boyfriend I found out none of what my friends had said were true... My ex absolutely HATES me right now, but I remain in good contact with her friends, which keep me informed. Now if she does get a new boyfriend don't be alarmed, most guys will go CRAZY this will only put you further in the hole with her. Remember he is a rebound and she is just trying to find you in him. Also remember there is still attraction there if you had been going out, I mean there obvously need to have some spark if your going to go out right. This is going to be hard, but your going to have to go through a "no contact period". Send her preferabke a hand written letter saying that you agree with the break up and that something really exciting in your life has just happened, but that now isn't the time and that you both need your space. This may prevoke a response from her, but keep the conversation short, max 10-15 minutes, comment if you would like more help, and I will keep my story updated

I'm confused... who are you talking to? What is your question? Are you asking advice on breaking no contact with your ex? (:/)

It is not a question, I was going through the articals and realised that WAY too many people are having the same problem... so why not bring it all into one conversation, and we can share what we learn

Not really how the site works... interesting idea though...