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Rissarooo
Sep 27, 2011, 08:21 PM
I'm stuck in a love triangle. I have a boyfriend & a BGF. Both of them are attractive & amazing guys. There is nothing bad I could say about them. They both have a flaw or two about them but no one is perfect. My boyfriend I've dated 3 times... & I don't know if we are meant to be. Now, my BGF is so amazing & we have no history. Last weekend we went to calaway park together and we had a blast together, and that's when we started flirting. That night I was tired and I rested my head on his shoulder and he was rubbin my knee, because it was botherin me, and was holding my hand and holding me close to keep me warm. It was so sweet. I don't know who to pick :(

TheCompromiser
Sep 29, 2011, 06:11 PM
I had two guys at once like this about 7 years ago, but it only lasted a week. I got completely sick to my stomach about what I was doing. I left them both, explaining what I was doing, how bad I felt, and profusely apologizing all the while. These are two people who care about you and they do not deserve someone who can't give them the love and loyalty that they provide you with. Cheating doesn't mean "sleeping with" to me either. It means making yourself available when you're with someone else.

jt1250champion
Sep 30, 2011, 10:15 AM
Well maybe you should try talking to both of them about how you feel

I was in a similar situation

Rhyme4NoReason
Oct 10, 2011, 10:25 PM
You pick who you are in love with. It's pretty obvious from what you wrote that you already know who you want to be with.