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AvaMarie
Sep 5, 2011, 10:28 PM
Why does my ex still call me, and gets angry when he thinks his friends want to talk to me. He broke up with me, because he had to go to work out of state, and would be gone for several months. I still love him, and I want him back, but I am not sure if I should continue to wait for him, if he doesn't want me anymore.

vanheart
Sep 5, 2011, 11:53 PM
Never wait for someone that doesn't want you.

You are already calling him your ex.

That's exactly what he is. He dumped you knowing he was going to leave & wanted to be single, you know?

"He broke up with me,because he had to go to work out of state and would be gone for several months"

Well, that's not much of a boyfriend, now is it?

Disappear.

I wouldn't wait for him to get back.
Why?

amicon
Sep 6, 2011, 05:43 AM
Have nothing more to do with him-he broke up with you.

He's the ex-now get your life back on track, heal and move on.

talaniman
Sep 6, 2011, 04:41 PM
I think he doesn't want you moving on to fast, and doesn't want you to date his friend, or find out what he is doing besides working. If he truly cared, he would have made arrangements to keep things going until he came back. Ya think he has a chick where he is at? I do, and its not cheating if you are not together.

Why even be in contact with someone who has dumped you, and why are you even talking to his friends in the first place? Are they JUST talking, or are they hitting on YOU?

vanheart
Sep 8, 2011, 01:18 AM
I agree, you are letting him & his friends create your drama. Why? To see if he comes back to you. That's lame.

How about telling all of them to, well, you know..

May be the best thing you've ever done. You may surprised how empowered you feel when you are in control.
Do it.

mmresd
Sep 8, 2011, 02:10 PM
What are you waiting for? A jealous person that wants to keep you as a back up plan? Move on, find someone who is going to show you at least some respect.