I'm 18 years old girl who just graduated high school and now I have to go to the same college as my brother who is 1 year older then me and I hated because I know that I wouldn't be allowed to talk to the boys or be comfortable around my friends and when ever there s a party of course I don't want him to be with me. He hates it too and he thinks that me going with him will ruin his social life. I don't have an other choice and I feel so upset because I know that every one will be having fun but me

Relax, just give each other space to be with your own group of friends. Have fun but don't get so carried away it affects your grades, or makes you cross the lines of good behavior. College is a lot bigger than high school you know, and he won't be able to keep up with you all that well.

You can have fun without going wild can't you?