Is it possible that a girl can be in love with 2 different men? I was with a girl for a few years and around the start of the third year she started cheating and decided to see us both without either of us knowing about it. When I found out she claims she loves us both and can't explain it. We both found out but even after everything her and the other man are back together even though he knows what she is capable of. He has always treated her like crap and made her pay for everything where as I have only ever loved her and done all I can for her.I have changed my number deleted her Facebook and stopped all contact forever it pains me so much to do so but I know I have to. I guess I'm on here because I have to believe that for some part of the 3 years that it was real even if just for a moment I need to know that she loved me its sad I know. But can you love 2 people

You were being played... she thought she could have it both ways, the reality is if she actually loved either of you she wouldn't have done this at all.

She doesn't understand real love. Count your blessings you weren't married or worse, have kids.