My girlfriend thinks it's a job having sex with me. What is she telling me

Is that exactly what she said? It sounds as if she feels its more like work than pleasure and for a woman this may indicate she is having trouble in the relationship emotionally and its hard for her to want to engage sexually. Please clarify...

my girlfriend thinks its a job having sex with me. what is she telling me

How old are you?

Many times it has to do with problems in the relationship, but sometimes it's not. If there aren't any problems (or it's not enough to affect the issue), she may just not be a very sexually active person. Or maybe it cooled down a bit, and she's not as active anymore. Something to consider, do you approach her the same way when you're "ready to go"? Do you dress nicely? Wear cologne? Do chores around the house (if you live together)? Try to look good or be romantic? If you make the effort without a necessary expectation, she will not feel as though it's a chore and she might even start it. Girls are attracted to guys who try to look good and are thoughtful. Don't ever roll over with a boner, ask for it, and expect her to do anything.. :P

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