goldengirl
Jan 31, 2007, 01:12 PM
Well where do I start. I've been married to my husband for 3 years and we have known each other for 11. About a year or so ago when I was 4 months pregnant I received a phone call from a woman saying she was f**king my husband. Nice... I know... just what I needed at the time!. Apparently he called a singles line & chatted up this woman who ended up being sico. She demanding money from my husband or she threatened to tell me what he did. My husband told her she was nuts nothing happened so I got the call. I was devastated when I got the call. I didn't get it. We were so close & happy. A lot of people that we knew looked up to our relationship & wished that they had the same connection. My husband said he was just checking it out... that it wasn't a big deal... bla... bla.. bla. They just talked. We worked through it... I took it as he did a stupid thing... we all screw up sometimes. It took about a year to finally fully trust him again. He swore he would never do this to me again. How he loves me so much & I mean the world to him.
About 4 months ago I had a strange feeling something was up. I checked his email & caught him in the act... can you believe this!! He was flirting with this girl... apparently a friend he knew from his past. Saying things like, "let me know when you can sneak away as long as you can keep a secret from my wife" I confronted him when he got home... he denied it at first. Then said it was nothing... he was just goofing around. He said it was a stupid thing to do... how he loves me so much & I'm the one for him. He promised he would never do it again I mean too much to him.
It's affecting everything in our life right now. I've lost the passion & trust that I've had for him. I feel so angry & betrayed. I do still love him, I want my marriage to work... He's been trying so hard to make things better. What do I do?
Please Help
Golden Girl
About 4 months ago I had a strange feeling something was up. I checked his email & caught him in the act... can you believe this!! He was flirting with this girl... apparently a friend he knew from his past. Saying things like, "let me know when you can sneak away as long as you can keep a secret from my wife" I confronted him when he got home... he denied it at first. Then said it was nothing... he was just goofing around. He said it was a stupid thing to do... how he loves me so much & I'm the one for him. He promised he would never do it again I mean too much to him.
It's affecting everything in our life right now. I've lost the passion & trust that I've had for him. I feel so angry & betrayed. I do still love him, I want my marriage to work... He's been trying so hard to make things better. What do I do?
Please Help
Golden Girl