When I'm cold to her, more dominant, pay less attention to her, talk about other girls and/or try to hide my affection, she's like all over me - literally begging for sex or intimacy. It's like the less attention I pay her, the more she pays me. However, when I do shower her with affection, praise, and love, she's kind of cold towards me, almost to the point where she seems uninterested in me (this is why I turned more dominant and negligent in the first place - to keep her in line >:)All I want is just some mutual affection :X I mean the first time I she said "I love you" was when I was a total ****. What the **** man? -_-

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You mean you took her back??

Women work like this - the same way men do, we want what we don't have, now I'm not saying every chick out there is crazy like this but note, MANY MANY are, and that's where you need to learn balance, because once there's balance you'll really get to see the real her <3 good luck x

Well some of us girls like the CRAP a guy does as far as what you do its like sucha turn on because she feels like she can butter you up and get a good out come

But if you were a jerk and she triend to butter you up and you always stayed a jerk no matter what she did
She would hate the way you were

You have to try and balance it out

I'm more aroused when my partner is dominant but that's a whole other topic!

She sees it as a challenge. Something to work for. However, when a guy is being a total jerkasaurus rex to me, he gets no attention, if he's a little grumpy, I'll be playful and sweet to try to cheer him up or get his panties out of the bunch .