Hi Everyone,

Ive been with my boyfriend for four years now and I love him to bits.Neither of us have had sex with other people because we have been together since we were teens. Ive never cheated on him and I never would. Ive also never ever been able to cheat on him in my dreams, something has always stopped me.

Recently I had a dream where I actually cheated on him with his friend and the sex was amazing! I haven't been able to stop thinking about it and now every time I see that friend I wonder if sex with him would be that good. Last night I had another dream where I cheated on my boyfriend again with a different friend of his but this time the sex was really bad. Does this sudden ability to drop all of my moral beliefs and cheat on my boyfriend in my dreams mean anything? Am I subconsciously looking for different more exciting sex or even just sex that would be dangerous? Is it possible that I could be getting bored with our sex?

All opinions welcome!

Thanks :)

It's not bad to dream-cheat on your boyfriend. It's only your sub-conscious and there could be a million reasons your mind is coming up with this stuff that has nothing to do with your moral fiber.

If you're worried that you're losing interest in sex with your boyfriend, then do something out of the ordinary to spice it up.

You've stated that you would never cheat on him... so don't cheat on him and you will be fine.

I would also warn you not to seek out spending time with his friend that you dreamed about if being around him is making you curious. Leave it where it was-in your dream-and try not to think on it anymore. That'll save you any awkward or unmanageable circumstances.

Is dream-cheating bad?

I certainly hope not, or boy would I be in big trouble with my wife. I have some very lusty dreams sometimes.

It's a dream, just don't cross the lines between fantasy and reality, and you will be fine.

Is it possible that I could be getting bored with our sex?Hello Tube:

Sure it's possible... But your dreams ain't going to tell you... Have you ever flown in your dreams? Does that mean your bored with walking?


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I see you are as lusty as I am, just stay within the boundaries of good behavior.

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I see you are as lusty as I am, just stay within the boundaries of good behavior.

Good research.

All of this is normal though. Any functioning adult is going to have attractions to people other than their significant others from time to time. THAT isn't the issue. The issue is how you manage those attractions. Behave, and you will be fine. Avoid the guys that you are interested in, and you will find the attraction subsides.