monkfish
Jun 24, 2011, 12:50 PM
Hello there. Well where do I start? I met my real father when I was around 21, and it was going well. We would meet up, and chat. I think about four times we met up for a drink, and a chat but, then it fizzled out. I think the timing was a little wrong on my behalf and, he would let me down quite a lot due to work commitments.
However as I've gotten older and, am now in my 30s with, my own little family, I would really like some sort of communication so, I did find him on Facebook and, I sent him a couple of messages but, then it became clear he wasn't willing to respond. That for me has become very hard to take a lot like rejection all over again.
Actually, even if he said "go away, I dont want anything to do with you" would be closure for me. So now I have his address. I would like to write to him but don't know whether it's a good idea! Can you help?
However as I've gotten older and, am now in my 30s with, my own little family, I would really like some sort of communication so, I did find him on Facebook and, I sent him a couple of messages but, then it became clear he wasn't willing to respond. That for me has become very hard to take a lot like rejection all over again.
Actually, even if he said "go away, I dont want anything to do with you" would be closure for me. So now I have his address. I would like to write to him but don't know whether it's a good idea! Can you help?