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needtobreakfree
Jun 22, 2011, 11:26 PM
Me(17) and my boyfriend(18) have resently become sexually active, we love each other very much so we desided we would stop and wait until marrige (which I think is very romantic :) ) but from a month now we started getting very 'tuchy, feely' and yesturday one thing led to another and we had sex again... without protection. It was on the 20th day of my cycle which is usually from 30 to 32 days long. I“m not sure if I should be worried since we only engaged in intercourse for less than a minute, we didn“t have a lot of foreplay and he takes awile if you know what I mean... also a foctor to us stoping our activities was a few pregnancy scares, which I think were just pchycological because our intercourse has never lasted for more than a minute (we usually just stopped and did something 'alternative'mainly for him)... what do you think?

Wondergirl
Jun 22, 2011, 11:29 PM
Any time you have sex (even for less than a minute), you can get pregnant. If you don't want to be called Mommy, please don't have sex. You've got too much living to do first.

J_9
Jun 23, 2011, 12:06 AM
If he put his penis into your vagina there is a risk of pregnancy. It doesn't matter how long it was in your vagina, just that it was.

Now, you again are risking pregnancy and have to wait to see if your next period comes.

If you aren't ready for motherhood, and you can't refrain from sex, at least use protection.

Alty
Jun 23, 2011, 03:24 PM
Plenty of sperm in pre ejaculate to get you pregnant. He doesn't have to finish the job.

Any time he puts his penis in your vagina, pregnancy is possible.

Let's hope you just get another scare, and not a positive pregnancy test.

clafairey
Jun 23, 2011, 04:12 PM
If you do not know the ins and outs of sex (no pun intended) or aren't prepared to be responsible (both of you) then I do not understand why you are having sex, or taking so many risks when doing so. I also agree with the above posts.