LadyLindsayxx
Jun 21, 2011, 02:18 PM
Okay, so the guy I have been with for almost 10 months, who never actually put a title on anything. But consider me as his girlfriend, and treated me like his girlfriend. It was great, we met in the fall, and then I moved on campus in the Spring. Coincidentally, we were placed on the same floor by the Housing & Res Life, and that was completely a surprise! It was difficult being so close, and seeing each other EVERY DAY, for the past 5 months, (this going from maybe seeing each other one to two times a week, while I was still a commuter to school.) Yes we had our fights, but we worked through them.
Now, we've been on summer vacation for almost a month (in the next couple days), and we haven't seen one another since school ended. We live almost two hours away from each other when we're not at school, and he doesn't have a car, and I crashed mine in January, and I am working on getting a new one very soon!
To back on track: He tells me a few days ago he wants to go on a break, and think about things, this is over a fight we've had for the first time since school ended. Yes, I know I added some jealousy on my part, especially never being in a "Long Distance" relationship before. He tells me all the time that he's different from other guys, and that I need to stop worrying and enjoy what I and what we have. And I do, I know I love him very much. But dropping the bomb of a "break", has been eating away at me, especially when he told me maybe we shouldn't talk as much.. Then the next day, he calls me, over three times, tells me I should text him. And it's confusing? Today, he's been texting me, and telling me he still cares about me and misses me. So, I'm confused? He says the break is just for a little while, and that we should both think about what is we want, and what do we want from one another. I can agree on that. How is it he can tell me, for now we're friends, wants a definite relationship, and then tell me how much he misses and cares about me?
What should I do guys? Keep holding on, be friends, and work through this with him and have faith or should I kick him to the curb?
Now, we've been on summer vacation for almost a month (in the next couple days), and we haven't seen one another since school ended. We live almost two hours away from each other when we're not at school, and he doesn't have a car, and I crashed mine in January, and I am working on getting a new one very soon!
To back on track: He tells me a few days ago he wants to go on a break, and think about things, this is over a fight we've had for the first time since school ended. Yes, I know I added some jealousy on my part, especially never being in a "Long Distance" relationship before. He tells me all the time that he's different from other guys, and that I need to stop worrying and enjoy what I and what we have. And I do, I know I love him very much. But dropping the bomb of a "break", has been eating away at me, especially when he told me maybe we shouldn't talk as much.. Then the next day, he calls me, over three times, tells me I should text him. And it's confusing? Today, he's been texting me, and telling me he still cares about me and misses me. So, I'm confused? He says the break is just for a little while, and that we should both think about what is we want, and what do we want from one another. I can agree on that. How is it he can tell me, for now we're friends, wants a definite relationship, and then tell me how much he misses and cares about me?
What should I do guys? Keep holding on, be friends, and work through this with him and have faith or should I kick him to the curb?