My friend came to me with an interesting concerned. He wanted to know how he can tell if a girls thinks his penis is too small? He goes to clubs often and whenever he dances with a girl, they tend to always move away when he gets close to their butt. What are your opinions on this?

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Im 26

I doubt the reaction of the women he dances with is due to the size of his penis. It probably has more to do with him getting too close or, in other words, invading their personal space. If he changes his dance moves, he might find his partners sticking around longer.

How old is your friend and what are his expectations when he goes to the clubs? Is it only to dance or is he looking for something?

He goes to clubs often and whenever he dances with a girl, they tend to always move away when he gets close to their butt.

This has nothing to do with penis size, but the fact he is being a complete CREEP!!

My friend is 27.

When he brought it to my attention I thought it was a strange question. Is it even possible for a girl to notice penis die based off dancing with clothes on?

When he brought it to my attention I thought it was a strange question. Is it even possible for a girl to notice penis die based off dancing with clothes on?

Not unless they have some strange super power. Haha. Or he's wearing Spandex and they're looking at it.

As mentioned, they're probably going away from him because he's just coming up behind girls he barely knows. Allowing anyone to come up directly behind you like that is a position of vulnerability, and to allow a stranger to do so, for most people, is not something they will do.

It depends on what he is wearing. If he is wearing skin-tight pants that make a ballerina's leotards look loose, then there could be some judgment going on. However, unless he is getting an obvious erection there really isn't. Which leads to the creepiness factor of getting an obvious erection on the dance floor.

It sounds like he is looking for excuses or inflating his concerns to the point where he is making choices which are impacting his social life in a negative way. Instead of drawing people in because they want to get to know him (not his penis), he is pushing them away.

Tell him to stop worrying about his size and start concentrating on other aspects. Personality counts more than what is between his legs. Hopefully, he is looking for more in a female than what is between hers.

I hate it when my friends have problems like this and ask for my help.

That having been said moving away from a stranger who is attempting to brush/press up against your "butt" is probably not based on the size of his penis. I'm surprised that all that the "girls" do is move away!

Here's my bigger problem - in this thread you are a female (your exact words: "I's and my husband's... ). I would think, as a female, you would know if you do or don't notice the size of a man's penis when he's dancing: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/have-friend-ask-wierd-questions-about-relationship-228848.html.

Here you're a male with a friend's wife hitting on you (and you refer to your wife - : ask why I am not around when my wife hangs out with her and ask for pictures of me."): https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/think-wifes-friend-likes-me-how-can-sure-209084.html.

What's going on here?

How is that your bigger problem wheather Im a female or a male? Please focus on the issue at hand and not have an attention span of a 2 year old. What are you stalking my profile? I ask questions about myself and my friends,I don't want to reveal my sex because I don't believe that's important. You put more effort in researching my previous questions than you did actually answering the question at hand. YOu had a hard time staying on task in school didn't you?

First off, there is no need to insult members of this site who have been trying to help you. Judy only pulled up your past posts in an attempt to better assist you (I'm sure) and in doing so discovered that you have not been consistent in your representation of who you are.

What reason do we have to help someone being offensive and deceptive?

Why focus on who you are presenting yourself as?

Because it makes you look like a troll who is just playing games.

Your attitude needs to be adjusted. The VOLUNTEERS helping you don't need your bad attitude--at best, they'll ignore your question. At worst, they'll tear it (and you) apart.

Fix your attitude. Next time it will be a formal warning, which will be followed by a ban from the site.

Ban me from the site? I didn't use profanity or anything I was just expressing myself just as she was. That's the problem with this world today, no one can disagree with something or be an opinionated individual. I'm the victim here, I'm being question on what my sex is and she does not even know me. I have made post on here before and no one else was concerned with if Im a male or female. Why does that matter?

Ban me from the site? I didn't use profanity or anything I was just expressing myself just as she was. That's the problem with this world today, no one can disagree with something or be an opinionated individual. I'm the victim here, I'm being question on what my sex is and she does not even know me. I have made post on here before and no one else was concerned with if Im a male or female. Why does that matter?

Profanity does not need to be used for us moderators to ban you. You have presented yourself as two different people, a man and a woman, this discredits you. It also presents as a troll who is only trying to get a rise out of the volunteers who are here to help you.

Presenting yourself as two different people constitutes abuse of the site and, as such, can cause you to be banned from the site.

Yeah OK.So am I not allowed to ask questions on behalf of someone else who may not be the same sex as I? I'm on here trying to get help but right now I'm getting people focusing on silly stuff like this. As I waste my time responding to comments of this sort. I will respect you wishes though and follow whatever rules this website has in place. Just hyperlink the rules section in you response and I will comply. Thank You

Here you go. Please refer to rule #9.

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