3 year relationship he's in college I'm in both the army and college but at 4 weeks pregnant finding out we were going to have a baby he stopped calling texting all of the above now that I'm 14 weeks pregnant he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now but still calls texts has sex with me and lord knows what he's doing with the other girls he talks to its really hurting me and pushing me tword abortion I don't want to just be his baby mother

You sort out the legalities -child support etc-and stop being his 'sex on tap' whenever he feels like it.

I hope you have the support of family and friends-as you don't have his.

He does not want to be in a relationship where he is committed. You were a sex toy or sex partner not much of anything else it appears ( and still are) if you think he is having sex with other girls, no telling what he could bring back to you in disease.

Obviously he does not want anything but sex, so cut it out, it is either there for a relationship or not at all. When child is born, get a court ordered custody order and a order for child support.

Have a healthy child without his support, and deal with him in a court of law. Sorry, no more sex.