Are you a man who has tried and enjoys wearing panties or other lingerie? (I'm not taking about full crossdressing here.) How did you start, and if you have a partner what does she or even he say?

There are several threads on this subject. Here's one of them - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/recently-started-wearing-womens-underwear-like-normal-578238-2.html.

Here's an old one - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/man-wears-womens-panties-204370.html

Otherwise, is this a survey or a question? I'm not sure.

This is a very common "fetish" if you want to call it that.
And to be honest except for the open slot, there is not much difference in cuts between many women and men undies anyway. Why anyone without breasts want to wear a bra is beyond me, but not my place to judge

Thanks guys, but the first sentence was a clue as to who I wanted an answer from. Clearly neither of you.

I'm really not looking for answers other than specified in my question which begins "are you a man who..". Although people on websites such as this gain "expert" status, this is not expertise. It is nothing more than a numerical count of answers previously given. Often these are simply a casual opinions with no experience or valid research to support them. On checking respondent profiles of members, some state their expertise is "insurance claims", but then answer questions way outside their experience on unrelated topics. Of course you have a right to do this, but please do not masquerade as a real expert. Too many points = too much time on your hands.

Actually no alfred, no expert here is made by post count, any expert has to be asked to be an expert by the quality of their answers ( not quanity)

And just because someone is an insurance expert does not mean they don't wear women's underwear.

Next many people have expert knowledge in many areas, an insurance expert may know how to do plumbing, my family owned and operated a plumbing company and my son still operates one. I have keep my lawn mowers running all my life, and so on.

So your need to rethink your attitude

Are you a man who has tried and enjoys wearing panties or other lingerie? Hello a:

No. Next question.

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You have far too much free time on your hands Chuck. The first sentence is intended to filter out worthless dross, not invite it. The question is still open to sincere respondents. I really value genuine answers, from real people. I don't want to hear from casual but opinionated "experts". If you have no personal experience of the topic, please kindly sit this one out.

I think we have degraded from a conversation thread to the beginnings of a flame war. I think all we need to do is mention hitler and then we're done. Oh wait...

Um Guy here. I don't think I am an expert so that means I can answer right? I think you're trolling the wrong forum here. We help, give advice, and answer questions related to sexuality. While this does fall under sexuality, it doesn't mean that we'll dance like monkeys for you. While there is a wide variety of people here, we are the ones that stayed and kept the knowledge of the posts that we have seen. So while we might not do this, we know enough to answer this.

So Two things to consider. This is a personal thing and anyone who does wear underpants of another gender will not speak up because they could be embarrassed or ashamed of it. Second, consider the population on this board. You're not going to get anything near an accurate statistical model form the responses here. All you can hope to get is enough empirical evidence to suggest a point. Nothing concrete.

I don't wear women's underwear. Does that invalidate my opinions here?

Once you understand some of the thrill of doing it, a lot of this makes sense. It is that sense that you know something, something naughty, that the world doesn't know. Well until you bend over and expose your whale tail.

Parting shot... er... thought. It is about flies, honey, and vinegar. I think you know it.

You have far too much free time on your hands Chuck. The first sentence is intended to filter out worthless dross, not invite it. The question is still open to sincere respondents. I really value genuine answers, from real people. I don't want to hear from casual but opinionated "experts". If you have no personal experience of the topic, please kindly sit this one out.


This from a man who has posted 7 times, seeking acceptance or permission to wear women's underwear, no other "advice" for anyone. Maybe we're supposed to be shocked and that's his kick in life.

Next - !

Frankly, since YOU hijacked someone ELSE'S thread---I sent people to YOUR thread to discuss your problems that you were airing in someone else's thread.

Your attitude is terrible.

YOU are getting FREE advice. You don't get to choose where it comes from. If you don't like the advice, then ignore it. But you don't get to choose who gives it.

Do you know when and where you DO get to choose who gives you advice? When you are PAYING for it.

If you want that, then go see a licensed counselor. I think you need one anyway, frankly. Not for wearing women's underwear, but for the huge chip in your shoulder against anyone that doesn't accept wholeheartedly that YOUR reasons for doing so are EVERYONE'S reasons for doing so.

Oh Dear, I had no idea such a simple request would rattle so many inflated egos. So unless you have personal experience of this topic, please do not answer. I'm sure this may come as a shock to those who have found an outlet for dubious knowledge or opinion. Much of this taken as credible and unchallenged. One response also asked if my OP was "a question or a survey?". What's your concern? You are not qualified to answer if it is one or the other. I don't want to debate my information request with anyone. This may conflict with your sense of self importance. Please re-read the simple specification.

Are you a man who has tried and enjoys wearing panties or other lingerie? (I'm not taking about full crossdressing here.) How did you start, and if you have a partner what does she or even he say?

No, I am not a man that enjoys wearing panties or other lingerie.

As the OP is becoming increasingly combative this thread is now...

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