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honey16
Jun 7, 2011, 11:22 AM
I lied to my boyfriend about my age, now I've fallen in love with him, what should I do?

Wondergirl
Jun 7, 2011, 11:28 AM
1) What's your age?

2) What's his age?

3) Does he love you?

honey16
Jun 7, 2011, 11:30 AM
16
18
Yes

Wondergirl
Jun 7, 2011, 11:32 AM
How old does he think you are?

honey16
Jun 7, 2011, 11:34 AM
17 :/

Wondergirl
Jun 7, 2011, 11:38 AM
Will he be mad you lied? Why will he be mad, if he is?

What gain did you get by lying and making yourself sound older?

honey16
Jun 7, 2011, 11:40 AM
Ye I think so :/
Because I lied to him about my age.

Wondergirl
Jun 7, 2011, 11:41 AM
WHY did you lie?

honey16
Jun 7, 2011, 11:43 AM
Because I thought that maybe if I said I was a bit older he would like me more

Wondergirl
Jun 7, 2011, 11:47 AM
There's only a year between your real age and the age you told him. Were you under 16 when you lied to him?

honey16
Jun 7, 2011, 11:48 AM
No I wasn't I was 16, I turn 17 in 4 months.

Wondergirl
Jun 7, 2011, 11:50 AM
If you were already 16 when you lied, I don't see any big deal. (You weren't underage or a "baby.") It's better to confess now than to keep him in the dark.

What will happen, do you think, when you confess?

honey16
Jun 7, 2011, 11:54 AM
Well I'm really scared about confessing because his mum id to do with the law, an when I told him I was 17 I didn't know his mum :/

EirinPattinson
Jul 27, 2011, 03:35 PM
I'm in the same position. I love a guy who is 16, and I told him that I was 15, but I'm actually 14. I'm really scared of telling him, but.. If he doesn't want to be with me, I'll at least know if he was meant for me or not. If he breaks up with me he doesn't love me enough, cause age doesn't really matter. So I'm going to tell him as soon as I get the chance.

sofia219
Aug 5, 2011, 07:39 PM
Maybe its difrent but I'm 11 and I told my boyfriend I was 13 and he is turning 14 4 months and I told him the truth today.he didn't dump me he just asked me why did you lie to me and it was as simple as saying because I taught you wouldn't like me. His answer:if you know I really like you then you know that age is just a number there is no age in love if he really likes you he won't care if he doesn't like you then well yea he will breakup with you but be glad. :D