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crystal232
Jun 6, 2011, 09:03 AM
I been seeing this man for two weeks. Everything is nice regular comunication, he sees me regular and takes me out and his really affetionate and goes out his way for me etc. The only problems sometimes when am with him he will say I don't think you like me, I don't think you want to be with, I don't think you miss me. I really like him a lot I know its still early but when ask him why he would say that he says he doesn't know lets just see how it goes. He told me he had girlfriend for a year and he broke up 2 months ago with her because she was alcoholic. I do like him but the constant things he says is kind of putting me off and I don't understand why he is being like this. The last time I saw him he said he was felt happy with me and then said am crazy for you But then again a few hours later he said I know you don't want to be with me.
I told him a few times yes I do really like you and want to be with you, and asked him why he say that do you want to be with me he always says yes and that likes me 100%
But another time he said I know don't want be with me just tell and won't text you again. I asked him why he said that and said because he has to

adviceishere
Jun 6, 2011, 10:57 AM
Sounds like he can't believe his luck! On the other hand its needy and not a good way to get to your heart. Its still early days, you need to talk to him if you think he is worth it, tell him were he stands, you like him a lot but it's a huge turn off when he says these things and it won't do him any favours.

amicon
Jun 6, 2011, 11:04 AM
That would put me off too-clingy and needy is never attractive.

Time to have a serious talk and tell him how it makes you feel.

talaniman
Jun 6, 2011, 10:10 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/am-pregnant-he-couldnt-care-less-575549.html

Wow, you sure jumped to another guy pretty quick, and expect a lot after only two weeks. I hope this isn't the same guy as before, and did you find out if you are pregnant or not?