Im a 16 year old guy , who loves this girl who I've known for a little over a year.
We were never going out but very close to except I went away for a month recently and when I came back she had kissed some guys and some other stuff and just said it was a bit of fun, when I confronted her she just said she wasn't thinking straight and it meant nothing and she loves me but was up to me if we still stayed mates... I don't know what I should do... I feel like I have to go out with her because I will always wonder what could have been? I constantly message this girl and the last couple of days have had no response, I even saw her 2days in a row this week and we couldn't keep a conversation going.. what should I do!:confused:
Thank-you!

Sounds like things went kind of south. Sounds like they are real awkward. Honestly what are you doing constantly messaging this girl. Your turning out to be very obsessive and she is probably thinking of you like some sort of stalker.

#1. Rule #1.

Never ever message constantly girls, women hate that and it turns them off. You want to push her away from you, which I think you already have done.

You should leave the messages alone. STOP IT, if it is not already to late.

What you should do is STOP MESSAGING. You should chill out and not be so serious. Have some fun. Your 16 and young. Do not take things so seriously. Meaning relax,
Meaning Chill, Meaning go out with your friends, Concentrate on school. Do not push anything with this girl.

Joe

All right just leave this girl alone for awhile. Most girls hate it when a guy won't leave them alone but don't stop all together in about a week message her again to check up on her. She'll thinks its cute that you really care about her but aren't like obsessing over her. Work on school and you will be OK. -Sammi