View Full Version : What do I do when your best friend wants to hangout with a guy that played you
txoxo12341
May 21, 2011, 06:00 AM
This kid played me so bad I was crying for days (stupid I know) but now he likes my BEST FRIEND she is legit the other half of me, and while she agreed what he did was wrong she wants to hangout with him.
I think she likes him too.
I was trying to be a god friend to her and tell her that we could hangout with them if she really wanted, but I don't know if I could handel that.
Please helppppp (:
Thanks
watermelon5050
May 23, 2011, 08:06 PM
The best thing that you can do is tell her that you don't feel comfortable with them hanging out with or without you. If she's that close to you, you asking her that won't even be a big deal. If you're that good of friends she would understand and try to put your happiness before her own. Remind her that if he played you what makes her think she's any different?
circles102
Jun 2, 2011, 06:42 PM
I think your friend probably does like him, but that does not mean you have to hang with this guy at all, tell your friend about what he did to you, if you think hel do it to her as well, but only once. Because a "god" friend (sorry I had to say that) would not persist to convince her to not seem like your trying to riun her.
talaniman
Jun 5, 2011, 10:12 AM
Sadly, she will have to find out for herself about him, if she won't see what he did to you. Let her do what she thinks is best, and be a good friend if she needs one. Was she a good friend when you needed one?
Only you can honestly answer that, but you can't control what others do. Just curious as to how he played you? How old are you?