View Full Version : At what point is a woman more than just a friend?
JT291M
May 11, 2011, 10:32 AM
One of my closest friends is staying with me off and on. At what point is someone more than just a friend? Many times it feels like more to me. Example: back rubs, laundry, food, and more. We just haven't moved to sex yet. What are your thoughts? Thank you
mmresd
May 11, 2011, 10:35 AM
If you are unsure as to where is your standing with someone, talk to them about how you are seeing things and make sure that both of you are on the same page, you wouldn't want to make the mistake of thinking something is more serious than it is.
Good Luck,
Javi
talaniman
May 11, 2011, 02:10 PM
Being so close and around each other stirs up feelings, mostly lust, but it can't be more until you both agree that its more.
sharper11
May 12, 2011, 12:38 PM
As said by MMRESD and Talaniman, if you are "confused" by where you stand, ask. It doesn't need to be uncomfortable, just ask the question. At least, then, you'll know where it's going.
I'll let you in on my life for a second, I friend I was interested in did similar things, it lead to nothing but 2 years of me having mixed feelings. Eventually, I decided it was her way of "keeping me around" when she needed me, NOT cool.