I am 22 weeks pregnant and I am stressed over the fact that I need to know that my boyfriend is my baby's father. I cheated on him in September 25, 10 and I had a period after that for the month of October and November and December. December 5th was my last period. My doctor said I conceived on December 17th I found out I was pregnant Jan 14th and I was about 6 weeks then. Everything matches up as far as the baby's growth at 22 weeks. Please tell me its my boyfriends child.

There's a lot of time between September and December. I'd say you can pretty much bet that your boyfriend is the baby's father if your only other possibility was in September.

I don't need to tell you that keeping this affair a secret isn't good for your relationship. Obviously you're stressed about it.

Do you think he'd understand? Can you live with yourself if you keep this a secret?

I know it's not easy to tell the truth about something like this, but if you plan to spend the rest of your life with this man don't you think honesty is the best policy? It will haunt you forever. Obviously it already is.