I am the custodial parent to my daughter her father who is the non custodial parent was just recently approved and is now receiving ssi benefits, where, when and how does my daughter get her approved ssi benefits paid.

It's time to find a social worker who understands the system to sort through this for you. Catholic Charities? Lutheran Social Services? Your county human services office? All help should be available on a sliding scale, if you are worried about the cost.

Have you called SS and asked?

Is child support Court ordered?