Ok, Ive been a very bad girl. I might have jumped someone's bones from work. This wouldn't really be so bad... IF, I didn't have a boyfriend. Now I know I'm wrong, but I can't help it. Ive been neglected lately by my boyfriend. (he refuses to have sex... Or buy me a sex toy) So, I just had an awesome night with my boss. My question is, should I really be enjoying this and does this make me a bad person??

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Certainly does not make you a girl most guys would want to date, that's certain.

However, you seem like a pretty cool co-worker:)

Certainly does not make you a girl most guys would want to date, that's certain.

However, you seem like a pretty cool co-worker:)

Yeah, and a cheater because she has a boyfriend.

Now, back to the legalities of the site.. Ages please.

I wouldn't go as far as to say you are a BAD person, but you are definitely doing something wrong. At this point, you need to be aware that you have destroyed your relationship, and SHOULD tell your BF immediately.

Ask yourself, would you still be enjoying this after you and your BF break up? Do you feel like you've made a mistake?

Do the right thing, and tell your BF. He IS going to find out at some point, why not get it over with now.

And yes please, AGES. J_9, sorry for responding without getting the ages first.

According to a previous thread, she is 19 and her boyfriend is 26.

Physically you should be enjoying this. Sex is awesome.

Emotionally and morally. Well I am not one to impose my morals on other people.

You should break up with your boyfriend. Cheating so much on him is disrespectful regardless of the reason. You've committed to being monogamous and you're cheating. If you're going to do that, don't be in a committed relationship.

Being the office bicycle can be fun, but it will hurt your professional life. I wouldn't do that. If you're going to sleep around find another place to get some meat. Don't piss where you sleep if you will excuse the euphemism.

Use protection. Do I need to say more? If you're going to sleep around, protect yourself.

Emotionally, well that is up to you to figure out. Why are you doing this? Revenge? Need? Desire? Boredom? Figure that out.

My two cents, take it as you will.

I think you need to grow up and find maturity. After reading your advice to a 16 year old in a thread from 2007, I am finding it very hard to believe you are 19 years old. Is your boss married or in a relationship?

Morally only you know what you should feel, only you know how many lives are affected by your choices. Does a great night of sex out weigh the guilt of cheating and the probability of endangering your job?

By the way you can buy your own sex toys if you really are over 18. You don't need your boyfriend to buy them for you unless you are using him for his money.

I'm starting to think this person is underage.

Has to be underage or should buy her own sex toy.

Something isn't right here.

And sleeping with your boss doesn't make you a bad person unless he's married or in a relationship. It does make you a stupid person.

When your relationship falls apart bend over and kiss your job good-bye.